A hallmark of healthy congregations, according
to the National Churches Life Survey, is willingness to discuss faith and invite
others to church. In my local church, Tawa Union Parish, a mission workgroup has
implemented Alpha, a British-based ten-week course explaining Christianity. The
youth ministry team group has used an interactive multimedia version of the
course, Youth Alpha, to develop an atmosphere of trust in which young people
feel free to talk about faith in small groups. My role as a local youth leader
feeds my national role as advisor for Youth Alpha in New Zealand.
In many ways, the Youth Alpha course is
pioneering styles of worship which are accessible for people without a church
background. Leaders convey the content of the message using the music, movies
and language experienced by young people. The youth ministry team uses a variety
of interactive learning styles, making a conscious effort to work on visual,
kinaesthetic as well as audio styles. The skills thus developed by the youth
ministry team are the skills required for running what are commonly known as
"Seeker services".
It is one thing to have a team develop a
"seeker oriented worship service". The biggest leap for a congregation is not
the development of new styles of worship, but to start to see worship as a
mission event for one’s own neighbours and friends. One of Tawa Union’s
congregations, St Aidan’s, adopted ten commitments released to the press by
Cliff Richard in April 1998. The ten promises outlined changes in attitude that
would make the local church more approachable for members of the public. The
constant use of the first person plural identifies the congregation, rather than
merely the worship leaders, as the key to the newcomer’s experience of worship.
When applied to youth ministry, this resource helps congregations remember that
a young person coming into the church for the first time will have his or her
experience shaped by the attitude of the congregation.
Kennon Callahan, in Twelve Keys to an
Effective Church, claims that the first and most central characteristic of an
effective, successful church is its specific, concrete, missional objectives.
Such a church, Callahan points out, will soon gain a reputation on the community
grapevine as a group that meets the real needs of people in the community.
Unfortunately the extent of the local church’s commitment to wider community
care is frequently limited to internal conversation. If disadvantaged or needy
youth are identified they are too often branded in the process as the ones who
are a threat to the wellbeing of the community.
Tawa Union Parish has begun to develop
specific concrete missional objectives for young people in its homework centre,
and in its mentoring programmes, the Boys and Girls Brigades. There is a limited
relationship with the Whakapakiri Centre, a home run for at-risk young people.
The youth group, recently developed as an outreach to eleven to
fifteen-year-olds, has started to develop its own place on the community
grapevine.
2. Involvement
The Presbyterian Church has identified its
second critical factor for healthy congregations as high levels of involvement.
This principle is applied to small groups, other congregational groups and in
worship that is true to God, enhancing of life, and inviting to people
unfamiliar with church.
Peter Kaldor and his co-authors explain that
"High levels of involvement provide important motivational resources for
attenders. Those who are frequently involved are being exposed more often to
worship, encouragement and the challenges of the faith in a corporate setting,
leading to a greater involvement in the wider mission of the church."
The typical analysis of a congregation’s youth
ministry is based on an inspection of attendance statistics for Christian
education and worship. While this may provide a quantitative measure of
involvement in the congregation, the health of the congregation’s ministry with
young people could also relate to the extent to which young people are met in
their quest for intimacy with other people and with God. The development of
small groups and authentic worship experiences provide an environment in which
young people have enough security to explore and express their evolving
spirituality.
As I speak to teenagers and young adults in
churches around New Zealand, I often hear complaints that they find it difficult
to relate to the worship services of their home churches. In many cases these
young people find the form of worship off-putting. The music is played by
instruments they perceive to be that of their grandparent’s generation, such as
the organ. On a deeper level, there is a question of intent. Is the worship
service designed to be an opportunity of intimacy and ecstasy, or is it rather
an occasion for the sharing of information?
The development of worship experiences in
which all ages can relate to God and to each other in an authentic way has
become one of the goals of the parish. This is being worked out in the gradual
reform of a morning service to include more contemporary forms of music,
creative means of communication, and a more relaxed leadership approach.
Alongside this venture, the parish has begun the development of evening meetings
in which young adults can try alternative approaches to worship that relate
closely to their own generational culture.
It would be tempting to mistake large
attendance at worship events or home groups for high levels of involvement. A
small group may have none of the dynamics of a large celebration, but may have
very healthy levels of participation by those present. Communal singing, despite
its unifying value, can be a cover for shallow worship that demands little of
the participant. A challenge for congregational youth ministry is the
development of worship events and small groups in which young people can
meaningfully take part in action and reflection, rather than merely joining in
the recitation of words. At the same time, I believe that a theology of communal
worship must take a congregation beyond liturgical activism. There needs to be
recognition that in a worship event, those from any background can experience
God in person.
The goal of high levels of involvement in
worship applies equally to other occasions for gathering, such as support
groups, discipleship groups, and ministry groups. Tawa Union’s Churches Life
Survey results show that only nine per cent of respondents identified their
involvement in small prayer, discussion or Bible Study groups, as compared to
nineteen percent in congregations overall. The development of youth ministry in
such a setting can only be aided by an increased percentage of people
demonstrating genuine examples of community. In Stan Stewart’s survey, he
discovered a recurrent disillusionment with what could be labelled "virtual
community", a group which talks about community and family yet is marked by a
lack of intimacy or awareness of the deeper levels of members’ lives.
3. Inclusive Community
The third factor in healthy congregations
identified by the Presbyterian Church of Aotearoa New Zealand, is a strong sense
of community among attenders embracing all generations, different cultures and
diverse ways of being human. The healthy congregation is able to create a sense
of belonging, manage conflict, and work towards reconciliation, healing, and
renewal.
One of the hallmarks of a healthy family is a
healthy emotional distance that avoids the extremes of both disengagement and
enmeshment. The implications of this for the separation of the young and the old
are worth considering. What about youth churches, in which it is likely that the
oldest members of the congregation are in their thirties? Or churches where the
all attendees are over the age of fifty?
A vital part of my ministry in the
Presbyterian Church of Aotearoa New Zealand is facilitation of co-operation
between people of different generations. In an "Intergenerational worship"
seminar held in Tawa Union Church, the ordained minister, Robyn Allen-Goudge,
and I led worship leaders through a process which recognised the contributions
of at least four generations: Builders, Boomers, Busters, and Millennials. I
have found that hearing the perspectives of different generations liberates
people to accept the concept of diversity in the congregation.
The community of a church, to relate to the
everyday life of attendees, has to extend beyond Sunday meetings. One of the
breakthroughs to come with Stan Stewart’s research and workshops has been a
growing willingness rank and file members of congregations to befriend young
people. One congregational leader talked about her parish council’s decision to
follow up young adults who had left home, even when there was little expectation
that they would come back to live in their parent’s neighbourhood. Pastoral
notes are being sent to students at exam time, food parcels are being delivered
by hand, and this congregation is celebrating memorable occasions such as
twenty-first birthdays. At long last, an intergenerational team and not just the
designated youth group leaders are sharing the tasks of youth ministry.
The Presbyterian Church of Aotearoa New
Zealand has a wide variety of ethnic groups in its membership: most notably
those of British descent, Samoan, Cook Island, Maori, Niuean, Korean, Taiwanese,
and Indonesian. Tawa Union Church brings the ethnic traditions associated with
the Methodist denomination in New Zealand: adding a Tongan flavour to the mix.
Over the past decade New Zealand has admitted a growing number of people from
the African continent. Tawa Union has a number of South African families, and a
refugee family from Rwanda. One of my challenges is to help the church at local,
regional and national levels to embrace people of these different cultures.
At a national level, policy gatherings of
youth leaders include caucus time for three broad groupings: Maori, Pacific
Island, and the other group, known as Palagi or Pakeha. These "tikanga" allow
each group to explore in depth the implications of developing policy for their
own ethnic groupings. Leaders from Asian backgrounds are yet to be incorporated
into large national gatherings, although I have included Korean or Taiwanese
consultants in executive meetings of the National Youth Ministry Workgroup.
At a local level, the recognition of different
ethnic backgrounds is no easy issue. Because most communities of young people
develop around natural friendship networks, the gathering of a multicultural
group is no easy task. Tawa Union Church hosts a Tongan-speaking congregation
that has its own youth group. Cook Islanders and Rwandans have recently become
involved in the Sunday night youth program. The challenge over the next year
will be the possibility of catering for ethnic diversity within this group.
Principles I have developed at a national level, such as freedom to develop
separately and together, will be put to the test.
A qualitative measure of a congregation’s
health is its ability to manage conflict. This applies to a congregation’s
ministry with young people in several ways. At a national level, I am often
dismayed at the impact antagonism between leaders has on the morale of youth
leaders. The health of youth ministry at a local level can be one of the first
indicators of health in the whole congregation. Young people and their leaders
can easily become scapegoats for dysfunctional adults or leadership structures.
A key part of youth ministry is helping young people deal with their
frustrations or hostile feelings when in the company of other youth or older
adults. The youth ministry team and the congregation in general both have the
potential to provide positive role models of assertive rather than aggressive
corporate behaviour.
Steinke’s systems approach to congregational
health provides some helpful insights into the management of conflict. He points
out that every church faces times of difficulty, stress or anxiety. What makes
the difference in these situations is whether or not people are active, focused
and imaginative in their responses to tension. Part of my ministry as National
Youth Ministry Coordinator is to build the hope of congregational leaders and
members in the future, so that they come to believe it is worth doing something
about their stress rather than merely watching as the congregation slips into
terminal illness.
Steinke suggests that a healthy congregation
should be characterised by interactions charged with spontaneity, intensity,
hope and wholehearted involvement. I believe that leadership teams and decision
making bodies, be they local youth ministry teams, parish councils, Presbyteries
or General Assemblies, have the potential to model a tone and mood which rubs
off on the local congregation. In 1997 I had the privilege of being one of the
moderators of a national forum of people involved in Co-operative Ventures. One
of my briefs from the organising committee was to develop a process that would
inspire regional committees to step out of the predictable, bland and
ineffectual mode of meetings that had become the norm throughout the country. I
am now applying the same directive to my involvement in all national, regional
and local gatherings of Christian leaders, be they youth group leaders,
ministers or key lay leaders.
4. Purpose and Direction
The fourth descriptive factor of healthy
congregations, as identified by my denomination, is a sense of direction.
Congregational leaders are being advised to ensure that attendees perceive their
congregation as having a definite sense of direction and purpose. Rick Warren
asserts that having a clear congregational purpose builds morale, reduces
frustration, allows concentration, attracts co-operation and assists evaluation.
At the first meeting of the Tawa Union youth
ministry team in 1999, we identified for ourselves the need for both direction
and purpose. Two of the youth leaders had put together a program framework for
Sunday nights, with a renewed focus on ministry with young adults. Having just
completed my reading for this assignment, I was keen to ensure that we
under-gird our work with some defined purposes. We put together a list of five
general purposes for our work, aligning ourselves with the mission of the whole
church. One leader was overwhelmed with fear that we would become lost in the
construction of a mission statement, never achieving anything. We pressed on
with our process, finding that within two hours we had come up with some
positive aims and concrete strategies.
One of the factors behind the anxiety of my
co-worker at Tawa was his observance of indecision at a congregational level.
The Parish council had issued many vision papers, identifying goals to be a
seven-day-a-week church, develop a variety of worship styles and reach the
unchurched. Vision statements had come and gone, and yet the congregation was
still facing uncertainty over worship patterns. An essential component in the
rise of vision and purpose, I believe, is clear and effective communication.
Rick Warren claims that when a church clearly communicates its destination,
people are eager to get on board. At a national level, the communication of
clear purposes and strategies is central to the growth of trust that is so
essential for support and training networks.
Every five to ten years a fresh vision for
youth ministry is developed by the national youth ministry workgroup of my
denomination. I am not convinced that this kind of exercise actually feeds
vision and direction at a local level. In my local youth ministry team, our
development of vision and direction did not come directly from an issue paper.
It came from our own ability to discern and articulate both the mission of the
church and the particular calling we had to work with young people. Doug Fields,
in his book "Purpose Driven Youth Ministry", focuses largely on the
importance of purposes and direction for youth ministry, and processes for
developing these, rather than on the specific model that has grown in his local
setting. Likewise, my ministry at a national and local level will nurture in key
leaders the development of the skills of dreaming, listening to God,
understanding the church’s mission and discerning patterns in the culture of
young people.
5. Involving Leadership
The fifth element of the Presbyterian Church’s
profile of the healthy congregation is "involving leadership". In the ideal
scenario, leadership has a strong sense of vision for the growth of the
congregation to which attenders are committed. Leadership is inspiring and
purposeful yet puts a priority on listening to attenders’ ideas and encouraging
them to discover their gifts and use them. In the healthy community, those with
roles receive adequate levels of support.
Tawa Union Parish undertook an examination of
leadership issues at the time I joined the congregation. One pastor had given
notice of his impending retirement and was recommending that the congregation
take stock of its directions for the future and the kind of leadership that
would take them there. The Ministry Task Group, set up to explore possible
changes in leadership style, pointed out that the Parish Council had a
management function rather than leadership role. Now, with a reform in the
process for choosing Parish Council members, visionaries are leading the church
alongside strategists, mobilisers and organisers.
Steinke in his criteria for healthy
congregations includes mature interaction between leaders and others in the
community. He explains that healthy leaders function and learn well, and those
who are being served grow to maturity. As National Youth Ministry Coordinator, I
should maintain mature interaction with those I serve. This should lead to a
growth in maturity of those working at a congregational level, so that they
become "healthier, wiser, freer, more autonomous and more likely to become
servants." The discovery of spiritual gifts, their development and their
responsible use will be an outcome from my ministry, and of leadership in a
healthy congregation.
6. Signs of Vital Faith
The sixth gauge of healthy Christian
community, as listed by the Presbyterian Church, is evidence of a "lively
faith". When compared to ailing churches, healthy congregations tend to have
higher levels of attenders growing in their faith or experiencing moments of
conversion or faith commitment. Among attenders in such churches, there are high
levels of devotional activity such as prayer and Bible reading.
Thomas Bandy explains that people are longing
to experience the healing power of God, "something that can transform dull,
impotent, sick, meaningless routine into vibrant, useful, healthy and purposeful
living". Young people, in particular, are searching for life-changing
experiences that will convince them of their value and connect them with someone
beyond themselves. When a congregation fosters the expectation that God will
transform people’s lives on a regular basis, the growth of youth ministry is
provided with a rich environment.
Sharing of faith is one of the foci for the
development of the evening worship event at Tawa Union. Young adults will have
the opportunity to listen to recent and not so recent accounts of how God has
changed the lives of congregational members. Prayer for one another will be
linked with stories of God’s intervention in the world.
As a national resource person for healthy
congregations, one of my highest priorities is the spiritual development of
leaders of young people. I know from experience that professionalism, burnout
and cynicism can wipe out any expectation of spiritual development in the life
of a youth leader. The ongoing development of personal prayer, Bible study and
worship need to be kept alongside practical workshops and intellectual
stimulation. As a national youth ministry co-ordinator, I have the opportunity
to stimulate the expectation of God’s "healing power" by sharing the stories
that I hear from around the country.
7. Numerical Growth
The seventh and final measure of healthy
congregations is linked to numbers: newcomers and numerical growth. According to
research and common sense, healthy congregations are more likely to be
attracting and holding newcomers, retaining young adults and growing
numerically. Using another analogy, the effective church will have an open front
door and a carefully monitored back door.
Kaldor and his team highlight the importance
of retaining young adults because of the high level of attrition among
adolescents and young adults in the Australian and New Zealand churches. Stan
Stewart’s survey highlighted the stark reality that most mainline churches were
experiencing a haemorrhage of leadership as their young people left and stayed
away forever. The loyal young adults who stayed in their home church or
denomination usually had a role in their church, such as teaching Sunday school,
or playing a musical instrument in worship services. However these people should
not be taken for granted, as they could drop out through burnout or
disillusionment.
In a healthy congregation, the gathering of
young adults from a broad geographical area will be a spin-off from the
attractiveness of the church’s life. The National Church Life Survey team
observed that young adults tended to gravitate towards congregations that had a
focus on serving regional networks of people, rather than congregations limited
to the local community. I believe that this preference for regional
congregations is linked with the need for a critical mass of people of a similar
age. As young people move out of their parents’ homes to study or work
elsewhere, or to further a relationship, those left behind face an
ever-diminishing circle of peers.
At a local level, Tawa Union is facing the
results of a massive loss of young adults two years ago. A strong regional
network, based on contemporary music, was lost when a key leader resigned,
married and moved to another church. Youth ministry was re-established with a
younger group of teenagers, while the few remaining young adults were nurtured
in a small home group setting. The congregation is now returning to the
challenge of building a regional network of young adults, once again using
contemporary music, multi-media exploration of popular culture and spirituality,
and informal gatherings in a café culture. Recruitment of young adults from a
non-Churched background is once again becoming a priority, with strategies being
developed for the baptism, confirmation, and mission membership.
At a national level, the last two years have
been spent researching and promoting strategies for growing ministry with young
adults. Intergenerational friendship, contemporary music, and the growth of
authentic community have been the primary factors emphasised in workshops
throughout New Zealand. The desired outcome is a growing expectation, at the
local level, that churches will thrive in their youth ministry, attracting
rather than losing young people.